The teacher emphasized that gifts should never be given during holidays: those who receive them should return them at a discounted price
Teacher's Day is approaching, coinciding with the warm atmosphere echoing on August 15th. A teacher spoke frankly at a parent teacher conference:; Please don't recharge my phone bill or prepare gifts for me. I'm serious, I really don't need them& rdquo; As soon as these words were spoken, the parents smiled and their respect for this honest teacher surged within them. The teacher emphasized that gifts should never be given during holidays: get back what you need
During the meeting, the teacher shared a past story: a parent once recharged 200 yuan for his phone bill, but he insisted on returning it, which caused laughter on the scene. In the comment section, a message from a suspected colleague revealed a similar experience -& mdash; Mutual recharge of phone bills until 800 yuan, instant salary; Shrinking;. Another person mentioned that they were determined to refund the cherries after receiving them, with a hint of helplessness in their humor
Can't help but wonder if the annual gift giving has exhausted both parties? The teacher who posted the video is brave enough to speak up, especially in the current environment. Unfortunately, there are many misunderstandings in the comment section, thinking that the teacher's actions have ulterior motives, but in fact, the teacher just wants to maintain the purity of education
The enthusiasm of parents for gift giving seems unstoppable, especially in kindergarten where children's daily lives rely heavily on the care of teachers. However, it is worth noting that many teachers hold a refusal attitude towards gift giving, and their integrity is sometimes misunderstood
Below the video, the teacher clarified that their intention was not to imply to parents, but to break the norm. Due to social norms, sincere speakers often encounter suspicion. Among the supporters, many have not participated in gift giving and believe in the sincerity of the teacher
Personal experience sharing: From elementary school to high school, the child never gave gifts to their teachers. As a result, the child did not suffer injustice but instead gained the love of their teachers. In fact, gift giving is more common in primary and junior high schools, due to parents' expectation that their children will receive more care
Some parents are overly sensitive to their children's subtle setbacks and directly associate them with whether it is due to not giving gifts. However, the essence of education should not be distorted by material things
Recalling the days when I ran a printing company, greeting cards and flowers became bestsellers on Teacher's Day, and parents openly sealed gifts in front of their children. This behavior has become a norm to some extent. Nevertheless, there are still people who choose to stick to their principles, just like me, and never go with the flow
As for the phenomenon of gift giving in private schools, it reflects more intangible competition among parents. Taking my child as an example, he never participated in gift giving, but ultimately achieved excellent results in the college entrance examination
Ultimately, whether or not to give gifts is not the key, what is important is to direct attention and resources towards the child's own growth. The improvement of academic performance relies on accumulated efforts over time, rather than a temporary one; Hot network;. As the teacher said, it may be more meaningful to use the saved funds for family meals or additional tutoring courses. What do you think about this